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Quest for Love

Updated: May 5, 2019

Are you trying to find a love relationship? Since the birth of internet dating, it feels like finding your significant other will be the most epic challenge of your life! So how can you speed up the process of meeting someone special?

A combination of these few keys things will definitely help! The first thing you need is a desire for a loving relationship. This may sound simple enough, but consider how loving relationships were modelled to you growing up. If you had really great examples of what a ‘loving’ relationship looks like, wonderful!! However, if you had ‘not so loving’ relationships modelled to you it may be worth reviewing past relationships to see how that has influenced the types of people you have attracted into your life. If you can see a pattern of unsuccessful relationships emerging then it’s time to seek help!

Have an understanding about what love means to you, how do you express love, how do you like it expressed to you and what qualities you are seeking in another.

The next thing you need is action! As long as you take action, you’ll eventually be steered in the right direction. There is however a difference between going through the motions (What! I’m taking action aren’t I??) and passionately and excitedly approaching the activity. Be aware of the energy you are putting out; this will affect who’s coming into your life.

Sometimes the process of internet dating can wear you down… Internet dating fatigue – it’s a thing! Recognise it and take yourself away from it for a while. So what should you do? It’s time to engage in some self-nurturing! If you want someone to love you, you need to love yourself first! Treat yourself to something that makes you feel special. It could be a massage, or day spa visit, or a float, whatever it is that makes you feel good within yourself. When your energy is back up, it’s time to get back on the proverbial horse! There’s no time to waste! So take yourself to a gig, or a gallery, or a café, or a market, basically anywhere that people gather holds the potential for you to meet someone!

Do you have a pet? If not, maybe it’s time to consider one. Animals are a great source of love and allow you to keep your heart open and the love flowing.

Another really important step in trying to find a loving partner is to push your loving energy out every day. Dig deep for the most loving feelings you can find within yourself and send those feelings out. The more love you send out, eventually the more love will come back to you.

Good luck in your Quest!! xx

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